Everyone and her cat has a suggestion on how to induce natural labor. Drink wine! Eat Chinese food! Draw a picture of a pony under a rainbow while hopping on one foot!
I'm here to save all of you future mothers of postmature-born babies a lot of frustration by telling you that absolutely every suggestion is total bullshit other than waiting it out naturally or getting the dreaded pitocin. So just sit back, let that watermelon in you continue to grow more and more every day which will ultimately make it harder to get out, and accept your fate.
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METHOD
Walking
CONCLUSION
Bullshit
WHY IT DOES NOT WORK
For real? Walking? Listen. I am a New Yorker now and walk an average of 5 miles a day, still with more speed and vigor at 41 weeks pregnant than the average American. If this were going to induce labor, it would have done it by now. It's like Sandy H. says: if you do something enough times for enough days in a row, something is bound to "work" eventually. Walking is kind of unavoidable for most people and you have to do it every day at least a little bit. "I walked from the couch to the fridge and my water broke! Must have been all that walking!" By this math, what other mundane daily activities will send us into labor? Like "Hey, I sure did a lot of blinking the day I went into labor! I'm absolutely sure all of that blinking is what sent me into labor!" At this point I am just going for walks because I have nothing else to do.
***
METHOD
Membrane Sweeping/Stripping
CONCLUSION
Bullshit
WHY IT DOES NOT WORK
Because I am still pregnant, that's why. I had heard of this procedure before but had no idea how painful it was. For those of you who have not had the pleasure, imagine having a barbaric nightmare featuring Freddy Krueger sticking his claw in your lady parts and scraping at them for what feels like hours, and you think he's done but he just sweeps again, and again, and again, and again, and when his claw finally comes out of you it looks like he's stuck it in a vat of raw, bloody hamburger meat. {Sorry.} Except it isn't a nightmare, it's your really-happening-in-real-life life, and it's going to happen every third day, whether you asked for it or not, until they finally just medically induce you, already. Anyway, bullshit, doesn't work.
***
METHOD
Eating spicy food
CONCLUSION
Bullshit
WHY IT DOES NOT WORK
The proof is still in my abdomen. I have eaten every tamale and Indian delicacy, every General Tso's morsel doused in Sriracha and nope, nope, and nope. Still pregnant.
***
METHOD
Sex
CONCLUSION
Bullshit
WHY IT DOES NOT WORK
If having sex actually induced labor, wouldn't they tell you to steer clear of it completely until you were full-term to avoid going into premature labor? Just sayin'. Also: nope, bullshit.
***
METHOD
Drinking wine
CONCLUSION
Unknown
WHY I AM PRETTY SURE IT WOULDN'T WORK ANYWAY
Supposedly this relaxes you into labor. Which is it, everyone? Are you supposed to over-exert yourself into labor or relax yourself into labor? Because you cannot do both! Bullshit! I actually still sleep like a baby so if that doesn't do it then this definitely won't. I'm not going to find out because I refuse to drink any. I haven't had any alcohol since 2012 (New Year's Eve, was probably 5-6 weeks pregnant at the time, sorry future baby's SAT scores!) and if I've made it this far, I plan to go all the way. Everyone says I can have a glass, but I don't want a glass - I want the whole bottle. In fact, some people use focal devices during childbirth, like a favorite photo or keepsake, or a picture of the sonogram so you can see your end goal. I want Derrick to hold up a magnum bottle of chilled Sauvignon Blanc as my focal point.
***
METHOD
Drinking castor oil
CONCLUSION
Bullshit
WHY IT DOES NOT WORK
Come on now, I think someone just made this up as a cruel, weird joke.
***
METHOD
Massage, pedicures, reflexology
CONCLUSION
Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit
WHY THEY DO NOT WORK
Although I had a relaxing morning with Sandy H. getting massaged and pedicured yesterday, I continue to carry this child cramp-free. Mom even did 5 whole minutes of internet research to learn about labor-inducing reflexology and executed her learnings on my hands, ears, and feet. It was funny, but nope, bullshit.
***
METHOD
Acupuncture
CONCLUSION
Unknown
WHY I DO NOT KNOW IF IT WORKS OR NOT
Sandy H. won't let me do it because she doesn't want me to come across any infected needles. She says we should go to church instead.
***
METHOD
Getting on your hands and knees and cleaning your entire apartment
CONCLUSION
Unknown
WHY I DO NOT KNOW IF IT WORKS OR NOT
Because I hired a housekeeper a while back and I am really happy with her work.
***
METHOD
Eating pineapple
CONCLUSION
Bullshit
WHY IT DOES NOT WORK
I'm not sure how many times you want to read that I'm still pregnant but yes, I'm still pregnant and have eaten pineapple by the crate for the last few weeks - and even double-downed with the spicy foods method with spicy pork tacos topped with pineapple salsa - so I call extreme double bullshit.
***
So there you have it. What bullshit labor induction methods do you suggest? And how in God's name can you prove that's what actually sent you or someone you know into labor? You're a liar. Unless you suggest lounging on the couch, watching 12 straight hours of TV, then we'll talk.
9.12.2013
9.11.2013
Negative Six Days
It is a weird and gross feeling knowing there is a 6-day old baby swimming around in me, happy as can be, feeling no urgency whatsoever to leave anytime soon. I can't say I blame her; I do give her lots of cookies, and an environment made up entirely of amniotic fluid may in fact be less humid than NYC is today.
Poor Sandy H. arrived two days prior to my due date and may ultimately spend two full weeks here with me before the baby even comes. By the time I'm finally given the gift of a screaming newborn, she'll be so sick of being here she will hop on the next flight home. Yesterday I made her walk 40 blocks in the heat and to her credit, she did it with minimal complaining! Today she asked me what I wanted to do. What do I want to do today?
I want to avoid as many friends and neighbors as possible who say "STILL????" whenever they see me.
No, actually, in fact, I was never really pregnant at all - this has all been a giant hoax for a social experiment to see how pregnant women are treated on the NYC subway.
No, actually, I was never pregnant, just smuggling 30 lbs of drugs. Everywhere I go. Just to see if I could.
No, actually, I had the baby and forgot to tell anyone. I just still look pregnant for some reason. *Head smack*.
These friends and neighbors will then go about the rest of their pregnancy-free days, immediately forgetting they saw me, grabbing a coffee before work, prancing around the office, grabbing drinks with girlfriends in the evening, and then they'll see me again tomorrow, remember I exist and say, "STILL????"
But not me - I will have been thinking about "STILL????" that whole time. Every day feels like a week now, making me approximately 46 weeks pregnant. I am 100% sure I have a one-way ticket to Induction Town this weekend.
My dear darling friend Jeff posted this Bossypants excerpt to my Facebook wall this morning and it was exactly what I needed. I have probably read it 20 times since 7 AM and I will continue to laugh and cry while reading it over and over until this baby actually comes - if she ever comes.
"First, Lord: No tattoos. May neither Chinese symbol for truth nor Winnie-the-Pooh holding the FSU logo stain her tender haunches.
May she be Beautiful but not Damaged, for it's the Damage that draws the creepy soccer coach's eye, not the Beauty.
When the Crystal Meth is offered, may she remember the parents who cut her grapes in half and stick with Beer.
Guide her, protect her when crossing the street, stepping onto boats, swimming in the ocean, swimming in pools, walking near pools, standing on the subway platform, crossing 86th Street, stepping off of boats, using mall restrooms, getting on and off escalators, driving on country roads while arguing, leaning on large windows, walking in parking lots, riding Ferris wheels, roller-coasters, log flumes, or anything called "Hell Drop," "Tower of Torture," or "The Death Spiral Rock 'N Zero G Roll featuring Aerosmith," and standing on any kind of balcony ever, anywhere, at any age.
Lead her away from Acting but not all the way to Finance. Something where she can make her own hours but still feel intellectually fulfilled and get outside sometimes And not have to wear high heels. What would that be, Lord? Architecture? Midwifery? Golf course design? I'm asking You, because if I knew, I'd be doing it, Youdammit.
May she play the Drums to the fiery rhythm of her Own Heart with the sinewy strength of her Own Arms, so she need Not Lie With Drummers.
Grant her a Rough Patch from twelve to seventeen. Let her draw horses and be interested in Barbies for much too long, For childhood is short - a Tiger Flower blooming Magenta for one day - And adulthood is long and dry-humping in cars will wait.
O Lord, break the Internet forever, that she may be spared the misspelled invective of her peers And the online marketing campaign for Rape Hostel V: Girls Just Wanna Get Stabbed.
And when she one day turns on me and calls me a Bitch in front of Hollister, Give me the strength, Lord, to yank her directly into a cab in front of her friends, For I will not have that Shit. I will not have it.
And should she choose to be a Mother one day, be my eyes, Lord, that I may see her, lying on a blanket on the floor at 4:50 A.M., all-at-once exhausted, bored, and in love with the little creature whose poop is leaking up its back. "My mother did this for me once," she will realize as she cleans feces off her baby's neck. "My mother did this for me." And the delayed gratitude will wash over her as it does each generation and she will make a Mental Note to call me. And she will forget. But I'll know, because I peeped it with Your God eyes.
Amen."
-Tina Fey
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| *Actual sonogram photo. |
Poor Sandy H. arrived two days prior to my due date and may ultimately spend two full weeks here with me before the baby even comes. By the time I'm finally given the gift of a screaming newborn, she'll be so sick of being here she will hop on the next flight home. Yesterday I made her walk 40 blocks in the heat and to her credit, she did it with minimal complaining! Today she asked me what I wanted to do. What do I want to do today?
I want to avoid as many friends and neighbors as possible who say "STILL????" whenever they see me.
No, actually, in fact, I was never really pregnant at all - this has all been a giant hoax for a social experiment to see how pregnant women are treated on the NYC subway.
No, actually, I was never pregnant, just smuggling 30 lbs of drugs. Everywhere I go. Just to see if I could.
No, actually, I had the baby and forgot to tell anyone. I just still look pregnant for some reason. *Head smack*.
These friends and neighbors will then go about the rest of their pregnancy-free days, immediately forgetting they saw me, grabbing a coffee before work, prancing around the office, grabbing drinks with girlfriends in the evening, and then they'll see me again tomorrow, remember I exist and say, "STILL????"
But not me - I will have been thinking about "STILL????" that whole time. Every day feels like a week now, making me approximately 46 weeks pregnant. I am 100% sure I have a one-way ticket to Induction Town this weekend.
My dear darling friend Jeff posted this Bossypants excerpt to my Facebook wall this morning and it was exactly what I needed. I have probably read it 20 times since 7 AM and I will continue to laugh and cry while reading it over and over until this baby actually comes - if she ever comes.
"First, Lord: No tattoos. May neither Chinese symbol for truth nor Winnie-the-Pooh holding the FSU logo stain her tender haunches.
May she be Beautiful but not Damaged, for it's the Damage that draws the creepy soccer coach's eye, not the Beauty.
When the Crystal Meth is offered, may she remember the parents who cut her grapes in half and stick with Beer.
Guide her, protect her when crossing the street, stepping onto boats, swimming in the ocean, swimming in pools, walking near pools, standing on the subway platform, crossing 86th Street, stepping off of boats, using mall restrooms, getting on and off escalators, driving on country roads while arguing, leaning on large windows, walking in parking lots, riding Ferris wheels, roller-coasters, log flumes, or anything called "Hell Drop," "Tower of Torture," or "The Death Spiral Rock 'N Zero G Roll featuring Aerosmith," and standing on any kind of balcony ever, anywhere, at any age.
Lead her away from Acting but not all the way to Finance. Something where she can make her own hours but still feel intellectually fulfilled and get outside sometimes And not have to wear high heels. What would that be, Lord? Architecture? Midwifery? Golf course design? I'm asking You, because if I knew, I'd be doing it, Youdammit.
May she play the Drums to the fiery rhythm of her Own Heart with the sinewy strength of her Own Arms, so she need Not Lie With Drummers.
Grant her a Rough Patch from twelve to seventeen. Let her draw horses and be interested in Barbies for much too long, For childhood is short - a Tiger Flower blooming Magenta for one day - And adulthood is long and dry-humping in cars will wait.
O Lord, break the Internet forever, that she may be spared the misspelled invective of her peers And the online marketing campaign for Rape Hostel V: Girls Just Wanna Get Stabbed.
And when she one day turns on me and calls me a Bitch in front of Hollister, Give me the strength, Lord, to yank her directly into a cab in front of her friends, For I will not have that Shit. I will not have it.
And should she choose to be a Mother one day, be my eyes, Lord, that I may see her, lying on a blanket on the floor at 4:50 A.M., all-at-once exhausted, bored, and in love with the little creature whose poop is leaking up its back. "My mother did this for me once," she will realize as she cleans feces off her baby's neck. "My mother did this for me." And the delayed gratitude will wash over her as it does each generation and she will make a Mental Note to call me. And she will forget. But I'll know, because I peeped it with Your God eyes.
Amen."
-Tina Fey
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